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Loved reading this and this is totally me. And the reason I only have TikTok on my iPad now, where it is buggy and slow and I stop using it after a few minutes of scrolling. Social media and the constant comparison is such a drain on your mind I feel. And what is the goal really, to all look the same?

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100%, that’s something we should all be asking ourselves!!

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We are so similar I feel like your Tecovas story could be the one I’ve written about any number of purchases I’ve made. Why do I go back to the well with fashion? Truly it’s one of the only places in my life that I allow myself the “what if” and it never does me right!

Thank you for this reminder.

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Totally! My Tecovas are just the latest example because this has happened countless times. It’s hard work to stay true to what you like in a world where we are bombarded with what’s in, out, cool, etc. That’s why I love that personal style is talked about more lately. It’s just a muscle we have to keep exercising!

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